Parents Guide

Overview

Teaching children safety is an ongoing process. This guide helps parents approach sensitive topics age-appropriately.

General Principles

Do:

• Start conversations early (age 4+)
• Use age-appropriate language
• Practice through role-play
• Keep communication open
• Stay calm when child discloses
• Believe your child

Don't:

• Use fear tactics
• Blame or shame
• Dismiss concerns
• Force physical affection
• Keep secrets from child

By Topic

Emergency Numbers:

• Teach 999 from age 5
• Practice what to say
• Ensure child knows full name, address
• Memorize parents' phone numbers

Stranger Safety:

• Define "stranger" clearly
• Teach "No, Go, Yell, Tell"
• Identify safe adults
• Practice scenarios

Body Safety:

• Use correct anatomical terms
• Teach underwear rule
• Good touch vs bad touch
• Secrets vs surprises

Online Safety:

• Set screen time limits
• Use parental controls
• Monitor activity
• Teach about privacy

By Age Group

Ages 4-6:

• Simple rules
• Basic body safety
• Emergency numbers
• Stranger basics

Ages 7-9:

• More detailed discussions
• Practice scenarios
• Online safety basics
• Bullying awareness

Ages 10-12:

• Complex scenarios
• Cyberbullying
• Money management
• Increased independence

Teens:

• Ongoing conversations
• Respect privacy
• Be available
• Discuss relationships

Conversation Starters

• "What would you do if...?"
• "Has anyone ever made you uncomfortable?"
• "What if someone asks you to keep a secret?"
• "Who would you tell if...?"

Resources for Parents

• School counsellors
• Pediatricians
• Parenting books
• Online resources

Important Contacts

• Talian Kasih: 15999
• Befrienders: 03-7627 2929
• Emergency: 999