Good Touch Bad Touch

Overview

Teaching children about body safety protects them from abuse. Use age-appropriate language and create open communication.

Teaching Body Safety

For Young Children (4-7):

• Use correct body part names
• Private parts are covered by underwear
• Good touch vs bad touch
• It's okay to say no to touches

For Older Children (8-12):

• More detailed discussions
• Recognize grooming behaviors
• Secrets vs surprises
• Trusted adults to tell

Body Safety Rules

The "Underwear Rule":

• Private parts are covered by underwear
• No one should touch or look at them
• Don't touch others' private parts
• Exceptions: doctors with parents present, parents helping young children clean

Body Autonomy:

• Your body belongs to YOU
• You can say no to unwanted touches
• Even from family members
• Don't force children to hug/kiss

Good Touch vs Bad Touch

Good Touch:

• Makes you feel safe
• Makes you feel loved
• Hugs (when you want them)
• High-fives
• Pat on back

Bad Touch:

• Touching private parts
• Makes you feel uncomfortable
• Makes you feel scared or confused
• Someone asks to keep it secret
• Touches that continue after you say stop

Secrets vs Surprises

Good Secrets (Surprises):

• Temporary (like birthday surprise)
• Will be told soon
• Makes people happy

Bad Secrets:

• Someone says "don't tell"
• Makes you feel worried
• About touches or inappropriate behavior
• Should ALWAYS tell parents

What to Do

If Someone Touches Inappropriately:

1. Say "NO" loudly
2. Get away
3. Tell trusted adult immediately
4. Keep telling until someone listens
5. It's NOT your fault

Trusted Adults to Tell:

• Parents
• Teachers
• School counsellor
• Doctor
• Police

Tips for Parents

• Start conversations early (age 4+)
• Use correct anatomical terms
• Keep communication open
• Don't shame or blame
• Believe your child
• Stay calm when they disclose

Important Contacts

• Talian Kasih: 15999
• Emergency: 999
• Police: 03-2115 9999